Tolerance or Beyond Tolerance

May 22, 2017

WE cannot tolerate people whom they share similar views and ideology. We cannot be tolerant to people whom they think that we are correct. But we can tolerate those people who think that we are wrong. We can tolerate other people whose views and ideologies are contrary to ours. We can tolerate other people who oppose our views and actions. In tolerance, the balance and norm of human society is truly maintained. Otherwise, there is no point and idea to tolerate other people who share similar thinking and things with ours.

People say, she has no something to cover up her body, but she seeks for new styled fashioned cloth. This is one of interesting comments which one can find in society where people seek something better and best without having something basic and good things in life. This is quite interesting since people should be realistic and practical when they do their daily given undertaking.

They also say, live where you are celebrated than you get tolerated. This is to mean that it is better to live and get close to society and people where they are welcoming and appreciative than to live in places and societies where respect and tolerance do not exist in the dictionary of their life. Tolerance is one of the signs of maturity in world and places where hatred and conflict are daily activities and thinking of society and this world too.

Tolerance is a reality that comes out of respect which people want to deliver towards any given contrasting or contrary ideology, undertaking, thinking or action. Tolerance is a reality that is borne out of seeking peaceful and better way of life. Tolerance is realty that comes out of as result of thinking that tomorrow is another better day; tomorrow is something beyond today.

In world and societies where contradiction and conflict are the daily menu and activities of life, it is not beyond tolerance that matters since such people and societies should at least come to the point of tolerance before they assume the beyond tolerance aspect of life due to the fact that life is very evolutionary. In such cases, things can be better and nicer if such people work on practical and realistic ground than say and think things and matters just for the sake of thinking and saying too.

People tolerate other people since they have capacity to accommodate what they do not like and want in their life and they sacrifice their ego, emotion and feelings and thinking for the good of common purpose and goal and the future good as well. People tolerate other people since they have seen the future than the present as they can see better future that what is on bad today.

Tolerance consists of three basics in which the first one is permitting or allowing; the second one is a conduct or point of view one disagrees with and the third one is respecting the person in the process. So, being tolerate means to permit a person or any given ideology which one disagrees thru the instrumentality of delivering certain amount of respect. In this case, the idea of being tolerate is always goes with the idea of giving some kind of respect to the thing or matte which one dislikes or disagrees. In such case, it is not something that is beyond which is essential and important factor, but at least to be in simple tolerating realm otherwise the idea of being beyond tolerance is fake and wrong.

Why do people tolerate other people? Why do people tolerate other matters or aspects of life other than people? What makes people to be in tolerating realm? How do people express their being tolerate towards any other matter or other people? Is there any tangible way where people express and manifest their tolerate level? Is being tolerated or tolerate an important and essential skill of life? These and other relating aspects of life should be sorted out before making people to be in intolerant realm.

There are conditions in which people should be tolerant since they have no choice. These are weather conditions of such as extreme cold or hot weather which they cannot resist; in this case, people have no choice except being tolerant since they cannot help this matter. There are also other conditions of life such as sickness or pains they face in their body metabolic activities; these also require some kind of tolerance in which being tolerant is very helpful and important human undertaking that any other thing.

Accordingly, there are also situation that make people to be in tolerating state of being since such human undertaking helps them to make their given life simple and better due to the fact they have shown some kind of matured mindset towards other people who try to complicate their given life. In such case, being tolerate makes the many bullets to get diverted to other areas since such people know how to protect themselves as result of their given and profound mindset which they have made up due to their given exposures and experiences of life which they have formulate in their given life.

Presumably, there are people with zero tolerance as there are also people with abundant tolerance. When people live in zero tolerance, they live with routine and vicious circle of pains and angers that comes out of their being intolerance. Such vicious circle of being intolerant make them destroy their given life destiny due to the fact as people are intolerance in some aspect, such step or process of being intolerant gives birth to another cause and effect that make them to be in such circle of pains and angers, this will eventually destroy their given life.

Hence, it is good and safe to be tolerant than intolerant since it is not only helpful but also  healthier in any human undertaking that permits people to be in nicer shape to the task they are going to have in the future. By being tolerant, people are protected from the danger they are going to come about due to the fact that their taking time to meditate and thinking twice safeguarded them from the dis-interesting and displeasing consequences of life.

Research state that adding to the confusion is the fact that tolerance could apply to different things–persons, behaviors, or ideas–and the rules are different for each. Tolerance of persons, what might be called “civility,” can be equated with the word “respect.” This is the classical definition of tolerance: the freedom to express one’s ideas without fear of reprisal. We respect those who hold different beliefs than our own by treating them courteously and allowing their views a place in the public discourse. We may strongly disagree with their ideas and vigorously contend against them in the public square, but we still show respect for the persons in spite of the differences.

Whether his behavior should be tolerated is an entirely different issue. This is the second sense of tolerance, the liberty to act, called tolerance of behavior. Our laws demonstrate that a man may believe what he likes–and he usually has the liberty to express those beliefs–but he may not behave as he likes. Some behavior is immoral or a threat to the common good. Rather than being tolerated, it is restricted by law.

Anger is the emotion of intolerance. Intolerance means that you don’t accept other people’s opinion or behavior. Anger is an expression that what you think is right and the others’ are wrong. In short, anger could drive people to have less tolerance to others. But, tolerance is fair and objective attitude toward those whose opinions and practices differ from one’s own.

Tolerance is a virtue. Tolerance is important because it opens the door to opportunities and increases the chance for success. People who have had exposure to cultural differences feel confident living in a diverse society. It is respect and appreciation of the rich variety of our world’s cultures, our forms of expression and ways of being human. Tolerance recognizes human rights and fundamental freedoms of others.


National Unity—Threat or Opportunity

May 18, 2017

National unity is a process of achieving national solidity, strength, prosperity, power, and feelings of being united as a nation. Unity is a harmony and an act of joining and working together as a one unit in order to achieve common purpose and goal. When all the people of any given nation join together and work collectively for the wellbeing of the country, its security and sovereignty is profoundly and highly established and secured. This feeling of national unity is crucial to lead the nation towards its progress and prosperity since it helps strengthen the entire nation.

Unity promotes peace and love in a nation. Where people are united, they can put efforts in elimination of vices like corruption. It gives people sense of security for they are able to know each other better and understand each other’s sensitivity. Unity promotes cooperation and opens doors of opportunity to excellence and greatness. When the people of an given nation think that the progress of the country is their own progress while its misfortune is their misfortune, the health and safety of any given nation is highly protected and preserved.

State is prime factor in establishing the fundamentals, the integrity and health of any given nation. Besides the constitution, policy, laws and rules any given state establish within its domain, the composition of people are one factor within the dynamics of any given state. State is also composition of individuals too. When good people are there, good state is established; when better people are composed, better state is formed and established. When bad and worse people exist within the dynamics and formation of state, the look of sate is same too. This is one given aspect.

When the unity of any given nation is founded upon love and respect between those components of any given nation such as individuals, ethnic groups, and other sub nations within that given domain, its unity is highly safe guarded since the foundation is healthy and strong. When the unity of any given nation is founded upon fear and hate, its unity is under jeopardy since there will come a time that such foundation will not exist due to the needs of the time.

What is quite interesting in here is that what are those elements that cause love and respect between and within any given nation that should be addressed and discussed. In such case, the foundation of any given nation should be sorted out in which by what kind of clay or stone it is founded upon before going too far than any other cause. Is the foundation true or not, is the foundation strong or not, is the foundation healthy or not? Is the foundation just or not?

Most people do argue that history is the basis of national unity. In reality, is the integrity of that given history at first checked out before building the present and future scenario of any given nation? Is history the basis of national unity? Basically, history is mainly made up of politics in which it is politics and politicians who make up the history of any given nation. In past, justice, truth, freedom and other essential components of social dynamics were not reality as is the case in the present day society too.

History is good since it is torching light for today and tomorrow. History also gives a chance not to make similar faults and mistakes that were committed by past century. If history is checked, the present day and future destiny of any given society is still under failure and wrong. The purpose of having history on table is to make the past good into better present and future, but also to remove the wrongs and bad that do exist in the makeup and dictionary of life of any given nation.

When people are infatuated with love of any given country national anthem or flag, but forgetting to love and respect its fellow brothers and sisters and citizens of that given nation, such love for nation is good actor in movie, music, or any other given book which people listen and read. Such love for unseen matter should be translated and manifested with something practical, tangible and objective reality otherwise such love is futile. And one of the manifestation and translation of unseen reality such as love is to sacrifice otherwise such love is not an objective reality. People should sacrifice their given ego and selfish interest for the common good and better future of any given nation.

Whilst such scenario of any given nation is there, it is not possible, holistic, realistic, honest, and unifying to use history as the basis of unity of a nation though historically it was maintained by armament and force, such unifying cause should be replaced and changed into will, love, respect, understanding and in fact mainly by choice. Otherwise if same scenario is followed by today and tomorrow, the future of such given cause is still under threat and danger.

It is good to wish and hope for unity of any given cause but such unity should be on the basis of truthful and fair ground. It is healthy and good to sing for unity of nation since it is better than singing and orate about hate and disunity. It is nice to voice about unity of nation since it is better than preaching for division and disunity. It is good to work together for the unity of any given cause due to the fact that it is an act which is better than working for disunity and hatred.

When people are united, it gives ample opportunity for prosperity and success. When people are united, it gives a chance for better strength and solidarity. When people are united, it delivers greater enthusiasm and energy to have better meaning and understanding on life. When people are united, such unity exerts abundant energy and force in every individual life and reality. When people are united, such unity gives better taste and flavor on the cause they want to promote.

Past harmony does not guarantee future unity. Unity should be established with choice and freedom of consciousness which people and society formulate than historical tales, and use of power. Unity of nation should harmonize and integrate material, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual and other needs of components of nations otherwise its unity is always under treat and jeopardy.

The Four Wives

Below is a very old, inspiring short story coming from the sacred land of Tibet. I don’t know who wrote it, but one thing is certain: its message is profound.

Long, long ago when the world was young and the tiger walked with the deer, there was a rich king who had four wives. The king loved his  fourth wife the most and adorned her with riches. He also loved his third wife and was always showing her off to neighbouring kingdoms. However, he always feared that she would leave him. His second wife was kind and considerate and his trusted confidante and advisor in difficult times. Wife number one was devoted and loyal and although she loved him deeply, he was not as interested and tended to ignore her.

One day, the king fell ill and the truth dawned that his life was soon to end. He thought of the luxurious life he had led and feared being alone when he died.

He asked his fourth wife, “I have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing, showered gifts upon you and taken great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No way!” she replied and walked away without another word.

The sad king then asked the third wife, “I have loved you all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company? ” “No!” she replied. “Life is too good! When you die, I’m going to remarry!”

He then asked the second wife, “I have always turned to you for help and you’ve always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?” “I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!” she replied. “At the very most, I can help with your funeral.”

Then a voice called out to the king in his sadness: “I’ll leave with you and follow you no matter where you go.” The king looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny and undernourished. Greatly grieved, the king said, “I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!”

In truth, we all have four wives in our lives. Our fourth wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it’ll leave us when we die. It’ll be burnt, buried or chopped up for the vultures and wolves or feed the worms.

Our third wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, it will all go to others. It will be divided up.

Our second wife is our family and friends. No matter how much they have supported and loved us, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the burial site. Even if they enter the portal of Death they and we must walk alone into the Bardo Thodol.

Our first wife is our mindstream, often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the ego. However, our mindstream is the only thing that will follow us wherever we go.

The moral: Care for your body and keep it healthy so you can live life to its fullest. Enjoy your possessions, the pleasure and the comfort they provide. Cherish your friends and family and the love they provide. Don’t forget to nourish your mind stream as it is the source of all your life and will prove to be your most faithful friend.

Belief—Magic and Superstitions

May 8, 2017

There is still controversy going on this world that which comes first in connection to belief, thought and action in which such realm of thinking can be resembled to chicken and egg story due to the fact that what you believe is mainly made up of on what you think and such thinking is derived out of belief which people formulate or what you think is derived out of what you believe too. Though people claim that action is inspired by thought and belief, in one aspect, action is also a cause to belief and thinking as well.

Beliefs are nothing more than thoughts people practiced. They also say, changing habits starts with changing beliefs. Changing core beliefs is most easily done by first establishing a new emotional base and then making step changes to people’s point of view. Once such beliefs and habits are established and formulated, most people face great challenge and difficulty such beliefs once they are established and they keep going to the future without even further questioning and asking.

One of the ways of life that is established based such habits and belief is religion. Religion is human way of understanding God, which does not mean that the type of God that is created by religion is true and correct due to the fact such perception is mainly formulated out of limited condition and incomplete manner due to the nature of being human, whatever capacity and nature such humans are endowed is not perfect and complete. Such perception of making few chosen individual as infallible was a practice and belief in past, but in today, such perception and practice is decaying due to the fact peoples belief in God is dying out, but rather people way of perceiving God is changing due to the nature and character of the age in which people in today need different perception of God which is not found out in the dictionary of any given religion in today.

In a recent article one read, which goes like as follows. Millennials and their habits, beliefs, views and work ethic are a frequent topic of conversation in today’s culture. This generation has stymied business leaders, professors, pastors, politicians and other cultural influencers. College-aged millennials today are far more likely than the general population to be religiously unaffiliated. This is true when they are compared to previous generations as well. In fact, the Pew Research Center documents that millennials are the least outwardly religious American generation, where “one in four are unaffiliated with any religion, far more than the share of older adults when they were ages 18 to 29.”

Society use history and culture in order to create unified community. Society use history and culture to define God. Society use history and culture to define identity. This can be true when history is genuine and truthful. Otherwise, history and culture will be the cause of disunity and division when both are not genuine and truthful; when both lack clarity and openness; when both are contesting and controversial; when both are distorted and confused, they need quite and overhaul in order to reach to the point of the truth.

When past is shaped with truthful and genuine ground, the future can learn from it otherwise there are always truth seeking and searching societies and generations that come to happen in due course of time, in this circumstance, history and culture could be paralyzed and removed since they are not only timely and incapable but also they are useless and valueless due to their in genuine and untrue grounds. In such case, life would not be easy for new generation since they live with contradicting mentality and thinking.

In this process of life, perplexity germinates in peoples thinking which do eventually lead to clarity and clear mindset. When society enter city of perplexity, it starts to think. Such thinking does lead to re-thinking on the existing mindset and thinking of society that do lead to revising anything and everything within that given domain. In such case, change will come. Otherwise things will be in similar condition and state of being and nothing miraculous will happen in a society which is not a good sign to the progress and betterment of any given society.

In this world, there are few concepts that are found as something governing, but they are fake and mirages that do need and require thorough revisions since they are mainly made upon fake concepts and ideologies that are good for nothing as time proves them wrong. These concepts were derived out of ambitions and egoistic personalities of few in past that drive them to go in way they want to lead any give society or maintain power and authority in those given societies created for their own purpose and they prefer same style and way of life should continue to the next ones, in fact forever too.

For example, the idea of practicing any given psychic art and therapy on other peoples reality, that make other people to think that any given religious group has received some power from God, by hypnotizing such people and making them victim of such kinds of therapy, and by doing so, they try to induce fear and anxiety on peoples mind, and they try to shape others to think that they have power from the unknown. This is one of the tricky views and deceiving practices such groups do undertake, in which such given practice was in past, and does exist in today, and will go in similar fashion in tomorrow.

Such magical way of thinking and believing in God is an obsolete way of life that do require new and different mindset due to the fact that science has healed and relived many people from all kinds of diseases they had been suffering and there is no such miracle people receive from such kinds of healing power though no one can escape from the ultimate end pint of physical existence on the earth which is death and whatever miracle people receive from such kinds of magical presentation and articulation of life could not help out such people to escape from death.

What is the point of bringing back to life to a person whose death could be better than his given life? In fact, there are people who do ask in here that such people are relieved from all kinds of disease they suffer, but they could not perform any given miracle or even better to the advancement or betterment of this world, probably even to their own lives as well. In such case, such magical way of healing people do lead to think on something and make them to ask and wonder that there must be something better and greater these people should deliver after they have been healed otherwise their given healing could be futile and their death could be better than their given life as well.







My Three Wives

May 2, 2017

It is quite interesting and noteworthy to reflect and meditate about one’s life. This is one of pleasing task and hobby one makes in one’s life while conversing with oneself at one’s own private threshold of life. In this process of life, one always wonders and contemplates on various aspects of one’s life and undertaking. In such process of life, one tries to connect those dots that exist in the making up of the line in which past and present can have and make sense to the future.

Life and death are just a point and we see them starting, but never ending. Life in this world sometimes looks like that it is just a dream world. This dream world is reality in which dream is something that can be translated into objective world and reality. Dream and reality are connected worlds with unseen power and force. Dream is power and reality is a force. Both are interrelated and interconnected by mysteries and objectively translated actions and reactions of life in this world.

In such process of life, things can be delightful when one sees them, dream world and objective world, into one dot and melting point in which both worlds are something that can be integrated and connected in one’s daily routine. In objective world, one sees the discovered and known where as in the dream world, one sees the hidden and undiscovered world. Both have their own relevance and importance in one’s given undertaking. It is just matter of perceiving and interpretation which requires one’s own given mindset as well.

While such theatrical drama of life is going in one’s reality and life, it is quite noteworthy and deserving to share one’s give life experience since personal reflection is an important and relevant undertaking one undergo in one’s life. It is not only a hobby but also quite an important task one assumes in life. This is not a joke or a game but rather an important task one makes in one’s life since it is something worthwhile for one’s given life. Personal reflection is not only about what one experiences, observes and understands but also on what one imagines and thinks as well.

One does not think that everyone should be someone in order to share any given experience of life since one thinks and believes that every person has something to share due to the fact that there is something in everyone’s life. Such sharing of experiences varies from people to people based upon types of experiences and exposures people face in life. In this case, people enter valley of something since they share their given experience and they learn from other people too. In this process of life, people taste different flavors of life which make their given experience to have pleasing one.

And when people share different experiences of life, such given experience of life should be considered and treated in its own way than justify it with wrongs and tricks since experience is personal and its truth should be checked based on that given personal experience and emotions than other people who never experience. When someone shares any given experience of life, that given experience can be shared with other people who share similar experience otherwise other people who have no clue and knowledge of such kinds of people experience should shut up their mouth and listen, and if they are wise, they should buy a note book and pen and jot down on what such kinds of people deliver.

In that my youthful age, I heard a comment and statement from a friend that woman is not satisfied through one night. I was wondering on what that statement and deliberations would mean. I tried to verify that given saying was right and wrong. Out of one’s given personality and one’s given curiosity, I was forced to check whether than saying was right and wrong. Later on, I found out that it was not one night, but it was many months and years that should take to verify that such statement was even correct. Since, I cannot cope up with that given saying, I made my own decision in my own accent.

When I was in my early twenties, I got married to three wives. I used to love three of them nicely and romantically. I was infatuated with them in similar times and occasions. When I got married with one of them, the next one follows. Sometimes, it is good to have three wives. Since I was in my youthful age, it was simple to accommodate three of them. As I was affectionate with them, they were also intoxicated with my love too. Sometimes, it is good to be infatuated with such kinds of affection since such affection made my life to have different color, flavor and taste. It was really just an experience of life which I should pass as life did force me to be in that condition though it was my choice and decision. I should not point fingers on others and I should not blame anyone for my polygamous marriage I had in past since it was my personal choice at that given time too.

These wives have common name and they used to get married with other people too. They have common nature and they do not come to anyone house, but it is people who go to their place and make them friends and wives too. These wives are special since they exist in every century and time and they trap whosoever entered their home with love and respect, if any, since they are liked by such people too. It is not even their fault to get married to whosever get close to them since this is how they survive otherwise thy world not exist to date.

My first wife had interesting quality and nature and I used to kiss her in many different conditions and circumstances of life. At first, I used to kiss her occasionally; and then I started kissing her in every day. As the love and affection went on and further, I started to kiss her in every hour. Later on, I was completely fallen in love and I could not separate myself from her, and then I kept kissing her behind every feeling and emotions I used to have. When my stomach is full; when I am joyous and happy; when I am sad and angry; when my belly was empty, I used to kiss her. I divorced after five years of special marriage life with her and I do not even see her any more since I had enough of her.

My second marriage lasted for few months. She liked more of socialization and talking since she was obsessed with some kind of ceremony and she always needs many people to be around and chat for hours. She liked such chatting that mainly focus on gossiping by those who surround. The gossip was about politics of the government and its people. Since she was much into socialization, I did not like such kinds of socialization; this marriage stayed for few months and then I filled divorce and I never been into her though I see her by now in this city all the time.

My third wife had quite temporal pleasing nature though many people have some kind affection. Although, it cannot be put under one class or category, the sense of making everyone to higher level of kingdom is one of the most liked attribute she has and she drives everyone to high level to whosoever get close which is one of the most remarkably great quality she was naturally endowed. She was originally created by deep study and research due to the fact that she has very sensitive nature. I got divorce with her after five years of marriage, though I by now get back to her occasionally; I do sometimes visit her especially at every weekend.  It is nice to have such kind of company with her.

One wonders in life that instead of living with one wife who is arguing and making one’s life in bad shape, it is better to have and enjoy with others that make one’s life very easy and pleasing too. Life is not about laws and rules, but it is about disciplines in one’s own way that eventually lead to betterment and simplicity. As people can find enjoyment and uncomplicatedness in everything, they can appreciate their given reality and life too. Laws and rules are necessary since many people are like child and teenage, but for those people who are matured enough, laws and rules are not necessary since they know their given limit and they live with tolerance and respect.

This condition of life make one self, in one aspect,  to be in state of further contemplating on life in which one deduce in here that life is quite interesting and one is forced to see the other side of life, and to contemplate on teachings of those wonderful teachers of our planet in which few people advise of a life that they have never lived such as, man never lived marrying any single wife, but advising others to have one wife or husband or a man who live a life of marrying more than two wives, but advising others to have only one wife or husband. In all worlds, life has its own meaning and perspective in which the divorce realm is currently influencing the life of humanity for many reasons to the extent that people start thinking divorce as legitimate way of life than a married life that bothers and disturbs one’s life. This is very personal and contextual way of life in which divorce is seen as better than married life that delivers anxiety and stress too.

In such process of my given marriage life, I learned quite a big deal and great experiences of life since every of my wife has something to deliver in such life. They give profound experiences and I see them with quite care and wisdom in my interaction and communication. In such given undertaking, such processes of life give birth to two things such as friends and enemies. With enemies, one takes care of their move and thinking; with friends, one lives with wonderment and appreciations too. One does not need any help and advice since life has given nice lesson to one’s life. Experience is best teacher and friend one can have in life than any other aspect of life.