June 15, 2012
When a given person creates smoother relationship with another person, the space for conflict and the probability of getting in bad shape in terms of human aspect is less as the vice versa is true. Space is a reality that is created out of choices and interactions, and also, out of natural causes and destinies. And it has two broad manifestations, in which the first one is visible and, the other one is non-visible. The invisible have also way of manifesting themselves in most tangible aspects of life.
It is important to realize the different aspects of spaces that exist in this world of existence. Basically, there are two broad kinds of spaces, which are the human spaces and non human spaces and aspects of life that do exist in this plane of existence in which such spaces are created as a result of voluntary and non voluntary ones that do occur thru nature, which has its own arithmetic and mystery and out of actions and reactions that do people make in the course of life on the earth.
The space that exists between planets and sun and moons and stars are created naturally. Such spaces are physical one. They are out of control of any given mind. None has the right to widen or narrow the space that exist between such mysteries of nature, although many people try to understand mysteries, know realities and hidden secretes related to them. This is one aspect of space in which such space is very natural and none has control over.
The other aspect of space is between various levels and layers of existence in which such space has different way of manifestation and reflection. These are amongst soil, plants, animals, humans and other creations. Such spaces do exist as result of the fashion of the natural forces of attraction and repulsion in which such spaces are mostly manipulated and tried in different manners and ways so as to widen or narrow the gap between them by human beings thru various research and the desire to know such mysteries. Such spaces have different levels and layers of manifestations depending on the nature of creation and how they interact and communicate between themselves.
The other aspect of space is space that exist between human beings in which such space vary depending on the choices, opportunities and maturities and capabilities of individuals, the type of opportunities they are provided in life, the choice they make in life, decisions they do in their daily routines and other actions and reactions they do in life which is mainly dependent upon the free will and non freewill aspect of individuals. Thus individuals vary on tastes, colors and attitude they have in life and thus space is created between individuals.
The other aspect of space is the cumulative effect of spaces that is created out of interaction and communication of many individuals, which enlarges its circle to the so called community or societal and institutional spaces. Such spaces are created by the choices, values, thinking, belief, and related aspect of communities or societies make in their daily interaction and communication between other aspects of life such as individuals and institutions. Institutions do have same aspect of space as societies do and they create their own space with the rest of their world in relation to individuals, communities or societies and other institution too.
When such spaces and gaps are integrated and communicate well, there is harmony and unity between such given variables of life in this world; otherwise, chaos, frustrations, confusion will be kings and queens in the minds of people since such space are not managed and well coordinated and communicated between themselves. Space Management needs knowledge, skill, attitude, volition, desire, ambition, purity of motive and other aspects one should figure out otherwise a given society lives in confusions and frustration due to lack of awareness of the root causes of such spaces and their respective management knowledge too.
There is another aspect of spaces which is considered here in the human aspect of life in which an individual society or community or institutional aspects do create and are resulted to face due to their very nature of life and reality in this world. Such spaces are further communicated and broken down in to five major elements and ingredients of life. These are material [accumulation], physical [distance], intellectual, emotional and spiritual space that exis6 between individuals, communities or societies and institutions too. Thus people vary and differ on their look and perspective about this world and life on the earth depending on the type and amounts of things they have in life which is mainly dependent upon the mentioned factors and elements of life on the earth.
It is quite interesting to note the space that exists between a 60 second joy and laughter to that of sadness and morrow. The time factor is same and equal, but the intensity and flavor and the amount of effect such actions and reactions have in one’s thinking, mood and attitude in life cannot be equal and same. Thus, life becomes here quite mystery to note only time factor aspect, but also to figure out the consequences of life depending on the type of circumstances one faces in life.
In this case, solution and problem aspects of life are another aspect in which a solution which is delivered to solve a particular problem one faced at age 30, cannot be a solution to same problem one faces at age 40, even if that given solution was fruitful. Here, time is one actor, maturity is another factor, circumstances one passes thru the passage of time is another factor. A person who was identified and known by others as cowardice at age 25, could be found and could perform bravery act at age 40 due to many reasons; the first one should be their observations and understanding of that given person which was biased and wrong; the other thing could be, life and many things have changed thru the course of life. In this case, those who know such person as cowardice live like 15 years behind in terms of such given person since many things have changed and they stopped having life with that person.
In this case, spaces do exist as result of misunderstanding and misconception of people’s behavior and reality, thinking and concepts, due to lack of people understanding and way of perceptions and the like. Such space that exist between beings out of mis-communication and misunderstandings are even worse since it is being far and wider due to the wrong choices and moves people make in life, which result in disappointments and complications since they live in vicious circle of crisis and problems that cannot be solved by other people, unless they change and correct their behavior, thinking and way of understanding in way that creates harmony and unity with others.
Here, it is not possible to be unified for wrong cause, it is quite important to note here that The Truth is the Pivot Point and The Solution, whatever age and century falsehood is the king and queen in people’s heart and minds. It is not also appropriate to be unified for causes that envelop sabotages and conspiracies as strategies and means to unity; in which transparency is a novel, hidden secret and plots are the prince and princess in this world. It is not possible to create unified world in world harassment and stigmatization are considered as normal way of life and are taken as correct way and means to justice in world unity is claimed as necessary prerequisite for the well being of society. It is not possible to create unified field in this world by using injustice as means to justice and fairness in this world.
When any given space is created out of negative action and reactions, the space has many frictions to accommodate in which the environment and the atmosphere in such space is very noisy, and it creates a ground to accommodate noise pollution, and the like. When there is a smooth action and reaction that exist between people, there is space that exist between such beings as result and need of the privacy factor thing, but the space here is very healthy, and the medium of communication is tolerance and understanding, which gives to maturity and higher level of understanding and perception of things, life and about this given world. This is what it means by human, I suppose since it needs capacity and higher level of consciousness.
When many beings interact, there is an obvious space that exist between beings since such space is created out of background of many people, which is obvious. But, when many people have diverse background, there is the so called agreement which is enveloped under, let us agree for not to disagree, which is created out of the fear of something, which is not healthy and not positive in attitude and is not matured way of creating harmony since the agenda behind is going on. When people act and react to perfect level and state of agreement, this is the sign of maturity in capacity so that the space that exist between them can be smooth, and they can understand and perceive things in higher level. Agreement gives birth to insight, which was not revealed before, but it should be done with sincerity and without outside pressure.
Most people are not capable to have their own belief, thinking, and principles of life, thus, they are found captured by being servants and slaves of other peoples belief and thinking and they fall under their trap and mercy. They are incapable to be independent, and in order to reject their weakness and failure, they magnify and exaggerate those people whom they follow and give respect due to their egocentric and selfish aspects in life so that they live with fake faith and fake vision which is unending and keep on adjusting its with he need of the time. The point here is that they still do no admit their failure and stupidity due to the fact that they follow certain belief system or book or whatever. They fail to realize that they are programmed machines in which they live like being computer key board buttons; they live with boundaries and programmed way of life. Here, they open big vacuum with their reality and others, which entertain their stupidity against few genius—one of the trend of life in this world.
There is also an interesting space that exist between a given person past and present, and future too, which is directly related to time and maturity factor, but due to circumstances and situations in which a given person could shift from a given personality and identity, which is not predicted by anyone and unprecedented by even oneself to a different reality and identity due to situational factors beyond the control of one’s thinking, imagination and comprehension, which could force other people to perceive one in a different thinking and mentality due to their belief and thinking and exposure in life. This space is an interesting scenario to self and it gives a perspective and other dimension to life and make one create one’s own world which is not and cannot exist in other people world and thinking too due to the different identity and individuality one is bestowed by life.
There is the so called the generation space, which results due to time factor and value making difference which appear due to the ins and outs a given generation is facing in which a generation thinking and value making is different from another given generation. It is like fashion and styles in clothing and dancing styles, in which a given generation wears in certain style, and another generation has a different style of wearing style, which is a reflection and manifestation of a given generation thinking, in most cases. This gap and space is a normal routine which is resulted out of seeking new and different things in life at individual, community or society and institution level.
One aspect of space that exist between people is the space that exist between them as a result of their professions and background in which a person who specialize in natural science and a person who specialize in social science has different way and method of perceiving realities in which those who specialize in natural science believe in laboratory and experimentation and they tend to believe in objective evidence; where as those who specialize in social sciences believe and think in theories, policies, assumptions,standards, rules, regulations and conventions, which took the upper hand since politics is part of such drama. This world tends to live in confused enigma than any other thing, which create certain space between these two huge camps and their respective denizens too.
There is also a third reality which cannot be proved by the two sciences—natural and social sciences—which is the science of dreams that can be neither experimented nor prove and controlled by policies and rules, which is the science of dreams and other related truthful realities going on many peoples reality. This is one of the truthful aspects of human reality which doe not seek laboratory and laws to make such thing s to happen, but they just exist and happen due to our nature as a human being. Dreams have three features. The first one, one knows future events; the second one is, it gives one to take the necessary precaution before anything bad occur one’s life. The third one is one welcomes good as they appear in the dream. This does not mean that one waits for dreams for anything to happen in one’s life. This is one of the enigmatic aspect of human reality.