September 29, 2010
There are many people who have an impact on our reality and life and decisions we make in life. Those whom we call friends, in which they are type of people who try to make our life productive and helpful; and there are people whom we call enemies who destruct our lives and the like.
Practically there are different layers of people in which…there are people whom we ignore while seeing on the street, there are people whom we greet and have cups of coffee together…there are people whom we share bed together no matter and whatever they think since we share feelings together, there are people whom we spend more time conversing since we share common understanding and thinking and the like. This depends on forces of attractions we have with others and cross sections we have with other individuals since this is one of the laws of this Cosmo, Force of Attraction.
While such drama and theatrical events of life is going on, it is important and necessary, at times, to be unpredictable to anyone, since life on the earth has many tricky issues and matters. Why do I need to be predictable to a person who is going to ruin my life tomorrow as far as my being unpredictable is from the motive of protecting myself from the evil things … going to plot? Why do I express myself to a person who is going to be jealous in due time? Is this necessary to have your whole picture known by another person? The answer is YES and No.
The Book says, “Do not tell thy vision to anyone even to your brother,…they plot evil on you?” This is an important reminder and note which sounds very useful and interesting since this tells the real nature and personality of most people as they put on harm, when the moment they think that you are like achieved. The major reason is obvious, envy and jealousy, which is followed by reason and the desire or ambition they have for their own personality—self centered—why not me, why another person, what is missed on me, I am better than another person chosen or elected or appointed to be like that and the like…
Personality and Individuality of human beings have two facets and three aspects. The two facets of every given individual personality and individuality are as follows. The first one is what is communicated and outwardly manifested. The second one what is kept personal, confidential, and not communicated to any outside reality or person, which is kept very personal. These can be feelings, and thinking, and desires and vision which are not shared to anyone.
The three aspects of personality and individuality of every given individual are the following. The first one is what every given person is known and identified by others. This depends on the mercy and observation of others. A given person could be identified as hero, but in reality he/she could be cowardice and the like.
The measurements or touchstones here depends on how a given community measure or value individuals. A bullying personality on the …. side could be considered by a given community dynamics or people of a given community as an act of heroism but in another community such acts could be considered as threatening and could put someone into court.
The second aspect of personality and individuality of every given individual is what that given person in reality is; the true picture of that given person, in which in the former case, most individual personality are distorted due to peoples confusing and community dynamics constraints of perceiving individuals, which is not free from bias and mistake, in which that given person could have different picture of his/her own personality other than he/she was perceive by others. What a given person thinks and knows about one’s own personality and individuality is the second aspect of every person reality.
The Third aspect of every person individuality and personality is what GOD thinks and perceive oneself, which is beyond the knowledge and conception of anyone, but manifests and reflects in every given individual life and reality. For example, there could be individuals who design plot on a given individual so as to put that given person under jeopardy. However, things could go contrary what is designed, and that given individual could be saved miraculously. Such circumstances and conditions could be referred to the Power of God, assisting that given individual since Perception is contextual.
A person who is considered as evil or devil by many people could have different reality in the sight of God, to the extent He could deliver a Perspective and guidance to humanity. A good example here is the exemplary life of Jesus Christ in which He was perceived by the rulers and leaders of religions and politics of that given time as mad, demon, magician, devil, witch and the like. But, He later exerted such profound effect and force on this world as we witness toady.
This world has two aspects in its happenings and occurrences. The first ones are those occurrences that happen with our choices. The other occurrences are those that happen without our own consent. Free will and NO Freewill things are two aspects of life on this earth. We eat since we are hungry. We choose the type of food we like based on our preferences. We get tired, and we have no choice to sleep since we have no other alternatives other than sleeping to remove our tiresome attitudes and the like.
Personality can be shared with other people in terms of life exposure, professional backgrounds, family, community life style and the like. However, Individuality cannot be shared, it is the individual’s distinct identity created and bestowed by God. A good example can be here like names, names are not shared. Twins even have different names. Even..there are certain coincidence in similarity between first and last maes…can this go up to seven roots? If that is the case…there are certain similarity one could onbserv in terms of individualiy…meaning likeness…like the case of the prophets…\Moses…\Jesus…but their mission is totally different…the impact they brought is totally diferent though they hold station of Prophethood..Personality and individuality are interconnected and interrelated. Personality has no impact on individuality, but could serve as spicy thing, means of knowing the hidden reality, indicator, and bridge to individuality.