April 1, 2010
Dictionary defines despicable as contemptible; and contemptible is defined as deserving contempt; and contempt is defined as despising or being despised or disrespect…this is not to discuss words and their dictionary definitions, but this is about on how far we are clear and precise in using our words in our daily communications so that others could understand us in our first expressions and explanations so that we could save their time and energy in understanding us…
When one uses certain words, if the listener is asking question for every of the explanation one uses, here the difficulty could be on both sides. There are certain cases in which how far one is clear and precise in the usage of words and their definition is a matter left for all…Meaning if the person whom you talk asks you several questions on what you say…what do you mean…here you have to change your word or you have to change the person whom you converse…
If one uses certain jargons, like, the medical doctor explains the type of disease to the patient in the medical languages terms and explanation, this could be so up surd, in which it is of no use and of no meaning and the like…in this case the problem goes to the one who is sending the message…
However if the words delivered by the sender that are of common and more people are aware, here the problem goes to the receiver or the listener in which that person is out of the circle in which that jargon or words are under use…
With regard to the doctor and patient things…have you ever noticed doctors threatening patients in many ways…if you do this …if you do not do this…where is that ethics and integrity gone…in the laws and policies of the market…taking the doctor and patient relationship…this is like buyer and seller relationship in which the patient is buying service from the doctor…thus customers are like kings under the market stuff…in which doctors should pay respect to the patient than being …and the like since they have better info about disease and the like…
If I have my own jargon for my own purpose, in which certain people understand to what I am writing and talking, in this case I have a world that understand what I use, in which I could be considered as lucky one.
In my case, I have different audiences in my communications; meaning those who read what I write; and those whom I converse which are totally different in understanding and the like; and thus I know what to write to whom; and I know what to converse to whom…based on the common media I communicate with varied people since common understanding is important in communication and interaction, thus I respect other people view while conversing too.
The point here is that what I write here is about CONCEPTS; but what I discuss about individuals is about events and people, in which every thing has its own place and time. If I spent all my day writing concepts, I would be in the middle of now here, since communication is important; and those whom I met on the roads could not be interested and could be irrelevant to them too.
Hence, I dwell in three things every day…Concepts things, Events matter…and the people part, meaning the gossiping, but all are important since we live with people, and we communicate; we give ideas on subject we like,…and we do not like we skip that part and the like…
In my interaction with people, if I get bored with people whom I converse, I just skip those topics so fast …telling them what you speak is sheet or nonsense…in this case…they are trying to tell me they know…I hate this kind of attitude…I lose my patience and prefer this kind of people like the coffee thing I drink in the cups…few minutes company…and the like…
Communication is not easy job; what I observed here in many cases that most people have their own jargons which they did not noticed; these jargons could be create in single family house holds and they could spread allover and the like; and they tend to take rapt attention by others and we see influencing many people; and there are certain other styles and way of …others ion which most people take them like a fashion and every one gets used to a ways of speaking…
In reality, most people communicate in feelings and emotions than words; meaning the emotions and tone one expresses a word matters to the communication and interaction medias; few people could sound that they are strong when they speak, but they are not that strong in heart and the like; meaning one could detect they are not by looking at their other sides of the mirror, in which we heard few confessing about their ignorance about them, after they realized their failure in understanding them.
Most people judge the book from the cover; others judge the book from few pages they read; other judge after reading the whole page, but fail to understand due to less capability…this could mean…those who read many books do have great understanding…but not necessarily….they could have very …lay man understanding and the like…this is because…Understanding is a scared gift….not a skill or whatever…
